Story Forward Leadership: The “But First, Story” Approach

In a world inundated with data-driven decisions and rapid-fire communication, the essence of effective leadership is often lost in translation. However, there lies a simple, yet profoundly impactful phrase that has the potential to dramatically enhance leadership abilities: "But First, Story."

At first glance, this phrase might seem trivial, echoing the popular sentiment, "But first, coffee." Yet, it holds a deeper meaning, especially in the context of leadership. It suggests that before undertaking any significant action or decision, one should first consider the power of storytelling.

The Essence of Storytelling in Leadership

Storytelling isn't just about entertaining an audience. It's a strategic tool that can make presentations more compelling, inspire creative problem-solving, and even provide a path to redemption when mistakes are made. For instance, consider the story of a leader whose well-crafted narrative at the start of a presentation led to a staggering $1.2 million deal. Or the tale of a chocolate company that unlocked a new level of creativity in their flavors simply by sharing stories.

These anecdotes underscore the first dimension of the "But First, Story" concept—the stories we tell. Telling the right story can significantly change how others perceive and respond to you as a leader.

The Power Behind the Stories

However, storytelling in leadership transcends beyond just the narratives shared. It delves into understanding the stories that aren't immediately visible—the ones behind the problems, the team members, and the business challenges.

Every issue encountered has a backstory, an underlying narrative that explains the true nature of the situation. Recognizing and understanding these hidden stories can provide invaluable insights and lead to more informed decision-making.

For example, when a team member's behavior suddenly changes, or a client withdraws from a deal unexpectedly, it's crucial to look beyond the surface. There might be more to the story than meets the eye, and taking the time to uncover these hidden narratives can reveal the real issues at play.

The Risk and Reward of Seeking the Full Story

Adopting a "But First, Story" mindset may require leaders to take a step back and resist the urge to act solely based on gut reactions or incomplete information. This approach might seem counterintuitive in today's fast-paced business environment, where instant decisions are often valued over thorough understanding.

Yet, it is in this contemplative space that leaders can truly differentiate themselves. By seeking out and considering the full story, leaders open themselves to a broader range of perspectives and solutions, ultimately leading to more effective leadership.

Story Forward Leadership: The Path Ahead

Embracing "But First, Story" is more than a tactic; it's a fundamental shift towards what I term "Story Forward Leadership." This approach places storytelling and narrative understanding at the heart of leadership, fostering a more human, empathetic, and effective style of guiding others.

Story Forward Leaders are pioneers, recognizing the untapped potential of stories in shaping the future of leadership. This approach doesn't require a complete overhaul of one's leadership style but rather a subtle yet powerful shift in perspective, prioritizing the human and narrative elements in every decision and interaction.

Kindra Hall

Wall Street Journal bestselling author and Award-Winning Storyteller Kindra Hall, MA, told her first story in the spring of 1992.

Since that time, Hall has become the go-to expert for storytelling in business and beyond. She is the best-selling author of Stories that Stick, which debuted at #2 on the Wall Street Journal Bestseller List, and companies like Forbes and Gartner say it “may be the most valuable business book you read.” Kindra’s newest book, Choose Your Story, Change Your Life is one of the Next Big Idea Club’s top 10 happiness books.

Kindra is a sought-after keynote speaker trusted by global brands to deliver messages that inspire teams and individuals to better communicate the value of their company, their products and their individuality through strategic storytelling. She lives in Manhattan with her husband, young son and daughter.

More from Kindra:

https://www.success.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.inc.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.entrepreneur.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.kindrahall.com/about
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