The Story You Shouldn't Tell (Part One)


As much as I love stories and storytelling, there is one story that you should never tell: The story that makes you cry when you tell it.

Hear me out—you should tell emotional stories. But there is a common misconception that getting emotional during a story means that you’re doing something right. The truth is, you couldn’t be more wrong.

When you’re telling a story, you should be telling it to make the listener feel something. You should be taking the audience on a journey to the lesson you want to teach. When you start crying during your story, you’ve ruined the audience’s journey. Instead of feeling the emotions of your story, they feel concerned about you.

Listen in as I teach you how to avoid turning your story into a therapy session, and learn how to turn the story you shouldn’t tell into one that you can.


Kindra Hall

Wall Street Journal bestselling author and Award-Winning Storyteller Kindra Hall, MA, told her first story in the spring of 1992.

Since that time, Hall has become the go-to expert for storytelling in business and beyond. She is the best-selling author of Stories that Stick, which debuted at #2 on the Wall Street Journal Bestseller List, and companies like Forbes and Gartner say it “may be the most valuable business book you read.” Kindra’s newest book, Choose Your Story, Change Your Life is one of the Next Big Idea Club’s top 10 happiness books.

Kindra is a sought-after keynote speaker trusted by global brands to deliver messages that inspire teams and individuals to better communicate the value of their company, their products and their individuality through strategic storytelling. She lives in Manhattan with her husband, young son and daughter.

More from Kindra:

https://www.success.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.inc.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.entrepreneur.com/author/kindra-hall

https://www.kindrahall.com/about
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